Why Dads Raising Children With Special Needs Feel So Alone
Kirby Rabalais Kirby Rabalais

Why Dads Raising Children With Special Needs Feel So Alone

For a long time, I didn’t realize how isolated I had become as a dad raising a child with special needs. I’m sharing what that looked like for me, why so many fathers feel left out of traditional support spaces, and how something as simple as one text can help us start reconnecting.

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Preparing for the IEP Process: A Guide for Fathers and Families of Children with Special Needs
Kirby Rabalais Kirby Rabalais

Preparing for the IEP Process: A Guide for Fathers and Families of Children with Special Needs

Navigating the world of special education can be overwhelming, especially when it's time for your child's Individualized Education Program (IEP) meeting. Whether it's your first time sitting at the table or you're revisiting your child's plan due to a grade-level transition or update, the stakes are always high. As a father and advocate for my son with special needs, I know firsthand the challenges and emotional weight these meetings carry. I'm writing this to help fellow dads and families prepare for IEP meetings with confidence, clarity, and the tools to ensure the best outcomes for their children.

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Why Now Is the Time to Revisit Your Child’s IEP (And What You Need to Know Before Fall)
Kirby Rabalais Kirby Rabalais

Why Now Is the Time to Revisit Your Child’s IEP (And What You Need to Know Before Fall)

As the school year winds down, many families are getting ready to shift into summer mode. But if you’re raising a child with disabilities, this is actually one of the most important times to take action: it’s IEP planning season.

The next few months offer a critical opportunity to reflect, reassess, and prepare for the school year ahead. And with changes being discussed at the federal level that could impact special education services, it’s more important than ever to be proactive and informed.

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