RESOURCE LIBRARY
A carefully curated collection of professionals, organizations, and services dedicated to supporting families raising children with disabilities. Each resource has been vetted by Got4titude® to ensure quality, expertise, and reliability.
NATIONAL & NON-LOCATION-SPECIFIC RESOURCES
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The Autism Voyage® | Special Needs Life & Financial Planning Hub Empowers families with curated insights, expert connections, and holistic strategies.
🌐 theautismvoyage.comLaGrange Law | Legal & Estate Planning Offers special needs and elder law planning, including trusts and guardianship.
🌐 lagrangelaw.comThe Arc | National Disability Advocacy Organization Provides support, services, and policy advocacy for individuals with I/DD and their families.
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GiGi’s Playhouse | Down Syndrome Achievement Centers Free, purposeful programs to empower individuals with Down syndrome.
🌐 gigisplayhouse.orgPitt Hopkins Research Foundation | Rare Disorder Research & Support Funds research and supports families navigating Pitt Hopkins Syndrome.
🌐 pitthopkins.orgThe Autism Voyage – Special Needs Collective
A trusted hub for families raising neurodivergent children, connecting them with experts in coaching, IEP advocacy, sensory-friendly travel, long-term financial planning, and insurance navigation. More than a directory, it’s a lifeline for families on this journey.
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BEACON Tool | Illinois Youth Behavioral Health Access A centralized platform for families and providers to access behavioral health services.
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NAPA Center | Pediatric Therapy (Multiple Locations) Intensive, customized OT, PT, and speech therapy programs for children.
🌐 napacenter.orgLighthouse Autism Center | Midwest Autism Therapy Network Offers ABA therapy services across the Midwest. 🌐 lighthouseautismcenter.com
HeartWorks | CHD Research & Therapy Innovation Develops breakthrough treatments for congenital heart disease.
🌐 heartworksinc.orgGLASA | Great Lakes Adaptive Sports Association Inclusive sports programs for individuals with physical or visual disabilities.
🌐 glasa.org
Podcasts + Reading
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The Telepathy Tapes- Explores intuitive communication and higher intelligence in children.
🎧 Listen on Apple PodcastsThe Ed Mylett Show - Interviews with top performers across disciplines.
🎧 edmylett.com/podcastThe School of Greatness- Inspiration from global leaders, athletes, and creators.
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THE RURAL SCOOP PODCAST
I sat down with Dr. Melissa Sadorf on The Rural Scoopto talk about what it means to be a dad raising a child with a rare diagnosis and how Got4titude came to life from that experience. We explored the silent weight fathers carry, the courage it takes to redefine masculinity, and the power of connection in rural and small communities. Grateful for this heartfelt conversation and the chance to remind every dad that he’s not alone on this road.
🎧 Listen HereTHE JUST CALL DAD PODCAST
I joined Coach Sean Patrick on The Just Call Dad Podcast for a raw conversation about raising neurodivergent kids. We talked about the struggles dads carry, the power of vulnerability, and why community changes everything. Thankful for this space to remind fathers they’re not alone.
🎧 Listen HereEVERYTHING IS LEARNING PODCAST
This episode is a conversation with Kirby Rabalais—a devoted father and advocate who founded Got4titude to support dads raising children with disabilities. He shares the raw realities of fatherhood, from early intervention challenges to everyday milestones, while encouraging fathers to find strength, community, and gratitude along the way.
🎧 Listen HereTHE UNSCRIPTED SUPPORT PODCAST
I sat down with Michael Pereira on The Unscripted Support Podcast
to talk about what it really means to be a dad raising a child with a rare condition. We dug into grief, brotherhood, and how Got4titude was born from my own journey. Grateful for the chance to share real talk about fatherhood and finding clarity through community.
🎧 Watch HereSFN DAD TO DAD PODCAST
Fathers mentoring fathers of kids with special needs - presented by the Special Fathers Network. Host David Hirsch interviews some amazing fathers of kids with special needs.
🎧 Listen to our InterviewKNOWING IS KNOWING with Rashad Young- In this episode - educator, disability advocate, and founder of Got4titude—opens up about the raw and real journey of raising a child with a rare diagnosis. He shares what it means to father through uncertainty, grief, and growth, and how he’s turned pain into purpose by building a community for other parents navigating similar paths.
🎧 Listen to our Interview#NOLIMITS PODCAST with Shelley Kenow
Shelley is a special education teacher, IEP coach and advocate. I join her on this episode to share my journey raising my son Harley, who has Pitt Hopkins syndrome, and why I created Got4titude. We talk about the pressures dads face, the silence many of us sit in, and the need for spaces where fathers can be vulnerable, supported, and seen. I also break down how Got4titude helps dads find clarity, connection, and strength as they navigate the realities of raising a neurodivergent child.
🎧 Listen to our Interview -
Becoming Supernatural | Dr. Joe Dispenza Mind-body healing through neuroscience and quantum transformation.
📖 Buy on AmazonThe Power of Intention | Wayne Dyer Classic book on purposeful living and inner alignment.
📖 Buy on AmazonThe Power of One More | Ed Mylett Motivational strategies to unlock your potential.
📖 Buy on AmazonThink and Grow Rich | Napoleon Hill The classic success mindset manual.
📖 Buy on Amazon
Illinois
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John Gottwald | Special Needs Financial Advisor, Edward Jones The ultimate connector and a trusted resource for families navigating financial planning for children with disabilities.
📧 John.gottwald@edwardjones.comJayme Lynn Levin-Muriel | Estate Planning Attorney Provides expert estate planning services with a deep understanding of special needs trusts and guardianship.
🌐Jayme Levin-Muriel Profile
📧 jlevin-muriel@hahnlaw.com
📞 312.637.3002
📍 200 W Madison St, Ste 2700, Chicago, IL 60606Sean Goodwin, J.D., LL.M.
Goodwin Legal Services
📍 922 Davis Street
Evanston, IL 60201
📞 (312) 588-6762Rubin Law | Special Needs Planning Attorneys Family-led law firm dedicated to special needs planning, benefits protection, and long-term care strategies.
🌐rubinlaw.comWilson & Wilson | Attorneys at Law Offers estate planning, elder law, Medicaid planning, and special needs trust services.
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The Arc of Illinois is a leading nonprofit organization dedicated to advancing advocacy, inclusion, and support for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families. Through education, resources, and statewide initiatives, The Arc empowers people to live full, self-directed lives in their communities. Got4titude is a proud affiliate of The Arc of Illinois
🌐 https://www.thearcofil.org/Jennifer Ancel Reiter | Special Education Attorney & Advocate Empowering parents through legal representation and educational advocacy.
🌐 Special Education Law & Advocacy
📧 jennifer@reiterspecedlaw.com
📞 847.707.3460Karen Hitzeman | Parent & Community Facilitator, Glenview District 34 Supports parent engagement and community connection for families in the district.
🌐 glenview34.org
📧 khitzeman@glenview34.org
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NAPA Center Chicago | Pediatric Therapy Customized intensive physical, occupational, and speech therapy programs.
🌐 NAPA Center ChicagoLittle Friends, Inc. | Autism & Developmental Disability Services Over 50 years of experience supporting families through educational, vocational, and residential programs.
🌐 littlefriendsinc.orgTotalLink2 Community | Disability Support Services Promotes employment, independence, and meaningful community participation for people with disabilities.
🌐 totallink2.orgAspiritech | Employment for Autistic Adults Provides meaningful employment and social opportunities for neurodiverse adults.
🌐 aspiritech.orgTrueNorth | Family Support Network A collaborative resource center offering guidance, education, and support for families.
🌐 truenorth804.orgHelping Hand
A nonprofit organization empowering children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities across Chicagoland through person-centered education, therapy, residential, and employment programs.
🌐 https://helpinghand-il.org/Illinois Resources — IDD Navigator
IDD Navigator is an incredible statewide directory that helps families quickly find services, supports, and organizations across Illinois. It’s a trusted tool for navigating everything from early intervention to adult services, and Got4titude will be listed there soon so dads can access the resources they need, all in one place.
🌐 https://iddnavigator.org/
MID WEST
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Genevieve Cornish | Financial Advisor, Northwestern Financial Disability advocate and finance expert; board member of Family Achievement Foundation.
🌐 Genevieve CornishTony Farah | Real Estate Advisor Helps families build customized communities with inclusive housing for special needs.
🌐 Tony Farah Real EstateSee Me Neurodiverse | Community Advocacy Group Works to build inclusive, neurodiverse-friendly communities.
🌐 seemeneurodiverse.orgFamily Achievement Foundation | Nonprofit Provides financial, legal, and community resources for families navigating disabilities.
🌐 familyachievementfoundation.orgHearts for Henry | CHD Advocacy Organization Raises awareness and funds for congenital heart disease research and care.
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A Rosie Place for Children | Respite Care The only licensed, freestanding specialty hospital for medically fragile children in Indiana.
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Iowa Infinity Center | Holistic Therapy Center Offers innovative therapies, including neuro and sensory support for children.
🌐 Iowa Infinity Center
NO COST Downloads
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Navigating Early Intervention can feel overwhelming, but this guide is here to simplify the process. Designed for parents—especially fathers—who want to take action, this resource breaks down everything you need to know about accessing support, advocating for your child, and understanding the services available.
Inside, you'll find:
✅ A clear roadmap to Early Intervention services
✅ How to qualify and request evaluations
✅ Key therapies and support options explained
✅ Tips for advocating for your child
with confidence.
Whether you're just starting this journey or need a better understanding of the system, this guide empowers you to take the next step with clarity and confidence.
Download now and start building the best possible foundation for your child’s future.
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Being a dad to a child with disabilities comes with a weight most people can’t see—but you don’t have to carry it alone.
The Father’s Survival Kit is your go-to guide for navigating the emotional, relational, and practical challenges of this journey—with strength, clarity, and connection.Inside, you’ll find:
✅ A checklist to name the invisible load you’re carrying—and how to lighten it
✅ Plug-and-play advocacy scripts for IEPs, doctor visits, and care meetings
✅ Emotional first aid tips to help you stay steady in the hard moments
✅ Quick strategies to reconnect with your partner and protect your marriage
✅ Simple micro-moments to bond with your child—even on the toughest days
✅ A curated list of brotherhood spaces where other fathers get it
✅ A 5-minute mental reset routine to help you lead with calm and clarityWhether you’re in the thick of it or just starting out, this guide is a lifeline—created by a father who’s been there, for fathers who are there.
📥 Download it at no cost and take your first step toward clarity, community, and a better way forward.
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Navigating the IEP (Individualized Education Program) process can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. This guide is designed to equip parents—especially fathers—with the tools and knowledge to confidently advocate for their child’s education.
Inside, you’ll find:
✅ A clear breakdown of the IEP process—what it is, how it works, and why it matters
✅ Step-by-step preparation tips to ensure your child’s needs are met
✅ How to communicate effectively with educators & therapists
✅ Your rights as a parent and how to advocate for the best possible supportWhether you’re preparing for your first IEP meeting or looking for ways to improve your child’s current plan, this guide empowers you to take action with clarity and confidence.
Download now and start creating an education plan that sets your child up for success!
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Being a dad to a medically complex child means your energy isn’t just important—it’s everything. The Power Morning Blueprint is your go-to guide for reclaiming your time, focus, and capacity so you can lead your life (and your family) from a place of strength and intention.
Inside, you’ll find:
✅ A full breakdown of Kirby’s proven morning routine—grounded in science, spirituality, and real life
✅ Step-by-step habits to protect your nervous system and rebuild energy stores
✅ Healing practices from mentors like Dr. Joe Dispenza, Medical Medium, and Ed Mylett
✅ Nutrition and detox rituals to reduce inflammation and improve focus
✅ Tools to create micro-moments of stillness, clarity, and personal power
✅ Honest context about how this routine flexes with fatherhood and real-world demands
✅ A powerful way to start your day grounded, not reactiveWhether you’re burned out or just looking for a better way to start your day, this blueprint is a lifeline—created by a father who’s walking the same road.
📥 Download it at no cost and take your first step toward aligned energy, calm focus, and the capacity to lead well.
Note: You’ll be asked for a billing address, but no payment info is required. Just skip that part—this one’s on us.
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Being a parent to a child with disabilities means planning for the future isn’t optional—it’s essential. A Special Needs Trust helps protect your child’s benefits while giving you a clear, intentional way to support their quality of life long-term. This guide is designed to help you understand the basics without legal jargon or overwhelm.
Inside, you’ll find:
✅ A clear, high-level explanation of what a Special Needs Trust is and why it matters
✅ A breakdown of the three main types of trusts—and which one most families use
✅ Plain-English examples of what a trust can and can’t pay for
✅ How Special Needs Trusts and ABLE accounts work together (and why many families use both)
✅ Common mistakes that can accidentally jeopardize benefits
✅ A simple 5-step checklist to help you get started with confidence
✅ Practical guidance on timing, funding options, and beneficiary designationsThis resource was created with guidance from Wilson and Wilson Estate Planning and Elder Law LLC, trusted advocates for families navigating special needs planning.
Whether you’re just beginning to think about long-term planning or realizing it’s time to take action, this guide gives you a calm, informed starting point—without pressure or fear.
📥 Download the guide and take one meaningful step toward protecting your child’s future and your family’s peace of mind.
Educational only. Not legal advice. Rules vary by state and situation—always consult a qualified special-needs planning attorney for your family’s plan.
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Got4titude is proud to be an affiliate of The Arc of Illinois, a statewide nonprofit dedicated to advancing advocacy, inclusion, and support for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families. The Arc connects families to vital resources, provides education and training, and champions policies that promote equality, independence, and community integration for people of all abilities.
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